Thread: Tiredness, and feeling very ill when I wake up

Hey there
I choose this subforum because I do not know if I have a sleeping disorder, but want to find out more about why certain things happen when I sleep.
I will describe it all and hope that someone knows or recognizes something, I am desperate to find out what is wrong, and even more desperate to find out how to fix it.

The first and most important problem to describe is that I am always tired, 'always' tired. And on some days in such extreme ways that I really dont know how to do the things that I should do. It makes me desperate and very down and frustrated, because I really want to live life fully, but I absolutely cant, at all..
This tiredness is here for years already, to me it seems that it started somewhere around 16, I am now 27.

The doctor did not find anything, always tells me its stress. So its not a lack of iron, or another 'easy to point' physical problem.

I often tend to sleep pretty long, 9/10 hours usually, sometimes even longer. When I dont do that I get too tired to be able to do anything of use.

I do not have problems with falling asleep, I fall asleep quickly and easily. As far as I know I do not sleepwalk or snore. And I often seem to wake up in pretty much the same position as I fell asleep in.

When I wake up:
This is terrible, waking up is painful. I always wake up with pain in my muscles, bones, stomach and sometimes head. I feel 'terribly' drowsy, so much that I cannot stand up often. And if I do I need to hold on to a wall or furniture to be sure that I do not fall over or bump into stuff. I know being a bit sleepy after waking up is normal, but this does not feel normal 'at all'. It feels like lots is wrong in my body and is asking for attention but I cannot figure out what it needs. It actually feels like I am a really old woman, 80 years old with old bones and muscles, and pain. The only 'signal' of the body that is clear in that moment is that I always feel overheated when I wake up.
It usually takes about two hours before this overheated feeling/drowsy feeling in the morning passes. The pain subsides during the day.

I eat mostly healthy, I dont drink alcohol, dont smoke (never did, with both). My weight is about 60 kilo`s, which should be a normal weight. My blood pressure tends to be low according to to doctor, but he says its normal for my age. I am diagnosed with Tietze syndrome, but this should only cause pain close to the chest bone, and diagnosed with ADD. But I somewhere belief that if I could wake up normal and feel rested, the ADD symptoms might be way less..
I dont use any medication, only normal vitamins.

Does anyone know what all of this could be about? I am desperate, since the doctor simply thinks its stress. I dont belief it, but in the mean time nothing happens to cure it. My life is on hold.. for a long time already.
So any info, insight or idea is welcome.